the power of Words

There are guidelines that will lead us to use POSITIVE WORDS to create PEACEFUL LIVES and HEALTHIER RELATIONSHIPS.:

1. Speak no Evil
Say Only Positive Statements.
If you find yourself about to say something cruel, remember that the words you say in a fit of anger will last a lifetime. Learn to edit your speech before you SPEAK!

2. Hear No Evil.
Refuse to listen to gossip, slander and other negative forms of speech.
Do not talk behind people's back and intentionally hurt them by GOSSIPING.

3. See No Evil.
Judge people KINDLY, the way you would wnat them to JUDGE you!.

4. Be Humble; Avoid Arrogance.
To keep a HUMBLE spirit, we need to monitor our actions and words constantly to make sure that we don't OFFEND Others.

5. Be Honest and Sensitive.
The fact that something is true, does not justify negative or cruel speech. Strive for HONESTY in everything you do.

6. Learn to Say "I'M SORRY".
Everyone makes mistakes. If you've spoken badly about someone, clear it up immediately and say SORRY!

7. Don't make Fun of People.
Making fun of someone causes anguish and painful memories.

8. Give Out Compliments
Everyone likes compliments, it doesn't matter who you are. And Compliments, because they are an expression of kindness, can be very BONDING and HEALING.
Don't just eliminate NeGATIVE SPEECH. Replace it with POSITIVE Words.

Tips.:D

 40 tips for the new you!

1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.

2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.

3. Buy a DVR and tape your late night shows and get more sleep.

4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, 'My purpose is to __________ today.'

5. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.

6. Play more games and read more books than you did in 2008.

7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, tai chi, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.

8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.

9. Dream more while you are awake.

10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

11. Drink green tea and plenty of water.. Eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds & walnuts.

12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

13. Clear clutter from your house, your car, your desk and let new and flowing energy into your life.

14. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

15. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

16. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.

17. Smile and laugh more. It will keep the energy vampires away.

18. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five years, will this matter?'

26. Forgive everyone for everything.

27. What other people think of you is none of your business.

28. GOD heals almost everything.

29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

30. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

31. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

32. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

33. The best is yet to come.

34. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

35. Do the right thing!

36. Call your family often. (Or email them to death!!!)

37. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements: I am thankful for __________. Today I accomplished _________.

38. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

39. Enjoy the ride. Remember this is not Disney World and you certainly don't want a fast pass. You only have one ride through life so make the most of it and enjoy the ride.

40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about.

verbal abuse

November 11, 2009

"the abuser feels he must

overpower his victim 

to feel good about himself"

Yesterday, the 10th of November, my witty supervisor verbally harassed me.It was a minor mistake made by my senior nurse and I was the one blamed. I am not happy about this, so I am seeking legal consultation from my lawyer friends.

My witty supervisor looked at all the kardex filed on my table.
She saw a minor mistake written on the kardex.
Says on the Blood and Plasma: MGH
*the abbreviation for may go home

She noticed that MGH should not be posted on the blood and plasma, hmmmmm
She asked me where should I place that damn MGH on the kardex...
I told her, just there. haha

thinking that I should save my senior nurse from the embarrassment.
Then she proudly says, "Do you want me to suspend you?" 
duh?!
Big Deal!
Just for that damn MGH note on the blood and plasma kardex?
Is that a big mistake for her?
Bigger than killing a patient?

So, my alleged senior says sorry for writing it down that way.
hmmmmm I still think it wasn't a good move for my supervisor to act that way.
I think she is a real power tripper!
Alright, a mistake made by my senior nurse, but why was I blamed?
Why should I get suspended?
Even if it is a joke it is not a funny one. 

Verbal abuses occur in most work places especially in the Philippine setting, where the supervisors take control of their subordinates and abuse their position as a supervisor.

"..most verbal abuse 
occurs in one-on-one meetings 
where there is no witness."

    The most important thing for the woman to keep in mind is to trust her perceptions and to stand up for her right to be treated with respect in the workplace. This can be tough, as the all too frequent response from her coworkers is to blame the victim and support the perpetrator. For these reasons, it is imperative that she find supportive friends, a support group or a qualified counselor as she works to resolve this painful situation. Above all, she must believe that the abuse is not her fault! The abusive supervisor is accountable.

Believe in the power of K-a-r-m-a
Pray for the abuser
Maybe they will meet their match.

atta game!

    What a game!!!! What a day!!!

I just got home from a very exciting basketball game!

this is how my day went...

7:00 am - 3:00 pm hospital duty.... weeee wooot

3:30pm - Ongoing endless endorsement. hehe kiddin.

3:40pm - Rounds

Around 5:30pm, I was about to luckily go home... The resident doctors saw me and kidnapped me, *kidding. They invited me to join them and watch their basketball game, thinking that they would win since they were the champs for 3 consecutive game.

6:00 pm - THE GAME starts now!

Nurses vs. Resident Doctors

The hospital I worked with has opened its inter - hospital basketball game for this year. The team goes as follows: The Resident Doctors team, Nurses team, Med tech team, Green boy team, Admin team, so on.

The Resident Doctors team made its name by earning 3 consecutive wins for the basketball game. The nurses team, unfortunately were the *kulelats hehe! Nurses team had 3 consecutive losses. Today, it was a different game plan for the nurses team to push themselves and go for the win this time!
 Luckily, we watched the game! Hell nurses won!!! wooot it was the sweetest win! yehey! :D

Congrats to the nurses!

*sorry i gotta go na eh, im too hungry!!! hmmmm

gotta go eat.. yummm yummm:D

john mayer

YOUR BODY IS A WONDERLAND


watch it click here

i once loved the lyrics of this song
way back in college.. harhar

watch the vid, it's john mayer singing wit taylor swift!

lyrics goes:
We got the afternoon
You got this room for two
One thing I've left to do
Discover me
Discovering you

One mile to every inch of
Your skin like porcelain
One pair of candy lips and
Your bubblegum tongue

And if you want love
We'll make it
Swimming a deep sea
Of blankets
Take all your big plans
And break 'em
This is bound to be a while

Your body Is a wonderland
Your body is a wonder (I'll use my hands)
Your body Is a wonderland

Something 'bout the way your hair falls in your face
I love the shape you take when crawling towards the pillowcase
You tell me where to go and
Though I might leave to find it
I'll never let your head hit the bed
Without my hand behind it

You want love?
We'll make it
Swimming a deep sea
Of blankets
Take all your big plans
And break 'em
This is bound to be a while

Your body Is a wonderland
Your body is a wonder (I'll use my hands)
Your body Is a wonderland

Damn baby
You frustrate me
I know you're mine all mine all mine
But you look so good it hurts sometimes

I Scream for ICE cream

I am definitely craving for some sorbet. hmmmmm
How about a nice cold yum yum num num ice cream?!
I love mango flavored ice cream, well, any fruity flavor will do!
That rich, yellow sweeeeeet and ooozing with flavor yummmmmy ice cream!
Can't wait to have ice cream melting on its sugar cone then down to my hands.
wet and sticky. hahaha

Chocolate flavor? - a second choice.
The least flavor that i like, would be coffee flavored ice cream
I never liked coffee anyway and I rarely drink caffeine.
num num num surprise me! Ice crrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaam!!!! :)

ken ken

Today, I did my laundry ahaha its too cold outside feels like there's an upcoming typhoon again. Oh well, hope not. I am staring at my blogspot and i really dunno what to write...
This post is entitled ken ken.. Let me tell you a short story..
Once upon a time, there was me and him (my ken).. We were together for almost a year. That whole year felt like 10 years in a relationship. Talk about being together 24/7 ahahahaha
Truth is I fell in love with a guy who loves me more than I love him, rarely that happens. It all started in school, we were college sweethearts and the rest is history.
He is the sweetest, funniest, lovable guy I have ever known. We talk about a lot of stuff, anything under the sun, then he asked me if we can have a term of endearment. Something like baby, love, mahal, sweet, cupcake, french fries, mocha, milk, candy... I told him it would be nice if he'll think of a word that says i love you, you are mine and no one else comes close. That word should be a 3 letter word with one syllable. You know what's amazing? He thought of the word Ken.. As in short for "Aken", in Filipino it means, mine... sweet huh?!
That's how it started. :D
(kilig**)
Everything happens for a reason.
I was happy I met this guy.
Someday, I'll marry someone just like him...
Well, sort a like that. :)

shifting ^^

talk about what you do to make you happy.
geeeez, its like this year 2009, can't get any better!

Last year, it was a sudden decision to resign from a steady job i had and take a risk. I did it because i felt a lot of pressure and stress came all along that gruesome year. I thought that last year was a steady one, until I decided to make a move (one that I can say one of the biggest decisions I made).

2009 I was lucky to have a job in a hospital here in Tarlac. A private hospital that caters around 100 plus bed capacity. This is a good chance for me to start things and have a new life. I know not to expect anything. Just be me and make a change.

Well, it wasn't that easy. I had to go along the starting process. My job as a nurse is a sudden shift for me. I was just a girl who lived the simple life. I mean, it was all easy way back in Manila. My former job was just to sit, listen, relax, face the computer and answer phone calls all day este all night long. Seriously, that was tiring! No sleep, no time to eat. I lost around 5lbs way back then. I thought that if I'd go home in Tarlac, I'd be less miserable. How come I was miserable? Well, truth is, my x boyfriend and i still see each other in that same office. We worked in one company. It was hard seeing each other when it makes no sense at all. We're not together anymore but we literally see each other. I admit, everyday I tortured myself.. and seeing him around hard to endure but i did... yey me! I really have to move on.

Here, I have my family, my friends, my bestfriend chi, but I don't know if I will get a job in tarlac. So, that was not planned.

Btw, before i resigned and change location, i really really really prayed hard... as hard as i could. ... just to tell God that I am ready to take the risk. I am willing to change my life.

My first days as a nurse was not a very good experience at all. I was fortunately assigned in the ICU, well there are two sides of a coin, there is an advantage and disadvantage. An icu nurse? me? nah, it was just a rotation. :D That experience was really really tiring, took all the energy out of me. Literally, it was all man power, definitely just you and the patients. If it gets toxic, it was hell scary because like wat i experienced, one patient is dying, raised a code, then on the other bed, another patient is having a seizure. I was in shock! In some nights, before I sleep, I curl up to my bed and ask myself, "do i really want to be a nurse?" hahaha

Those were the first months of Lougie nurse. ahahaha

Then i got over it. :D

10 months later..
oct 2009, today!

I was assigned to the station I ward. Hell, it was a big shift. you know why?
first: Station I means single duty. what the heck is that? single duty as in I will have no help, it will just be me and the patients. geeeez. what a big big big responsibility. I am just a newbie hey! I need help. But, I had to accept it. It became a challege. :D
second: The station I is a secluded, isolated place. I mean hey they will never see my beauty. nah, kidding. :D the station I is far away from people. geeeez. (wala akong makausap kundi patiente at ung aid ko) ahehe
third: I never wanted to be on a single duty. I need help. More nurses more help less complications less mistakes

This is me now, lets just say, everyday is a learning experience for me. :D
Everyday, i get scolded from doing something wrong then I learn, and never do it again.:D
Everyday, i know is a challenge.
Everyday, i just pray to have less census. ahahhaha
less patients, less work, less toxic the shift is. :D


right now, it got me thinking...
this might not be the job that i wished when i was young.
this might not be the job that will make big money.
this might not be the job that will make life easier for me.

however, this might be a stepping stone to a good life, pouring with milk and honey. ahehe ^^

Unwritten

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this is my favorito right now.. sing wit me ya'all! :D

"Unwritten"

I am unwritten, can't read my mind, I'm undefined
I'm just beginning, the pen's in my hand, ending unplanned

Staring at the blank page before you
Open up the dirty window
Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find

Reaching for something in the distance
So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions
Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten

Oh, oh, oh

I break tradition, sometimes my tries, are outside the lines
We've been conditioned to not make mistakes, but I can't live that way

Staring at the blank page before you
Open up the dirty window
Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find

Reaching for something in the distance
So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions
Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins

Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten

Staring at the blank page before you
Open up the dirty window
Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find

Reaching for something in the distance
So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions
Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins

Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten
The rest is still unwritten
The rest is still unwritten

Oh, yeah, yeah

MJ

this is for the King of POP

Your music will live on!

Quotes

The quotes I live by:

"Borrow money from a pessimist, they won't expect it back."

"Always remember that you're unique, just like everyone else."

"Eat right. Stay fit. Die anyway."

"If at first you don't succeed, don't try skydiving."

"All generalizations are false."

"If ignorance is bliss, then tourists are in a constant state of euphoria."

"Everywhere is walking distance if you have the time."

"Beauty is in the eye of the beer-holder."

"Friends help you move. Real friends help you move bodies."

"To gain what is worth having, it may be necessary to lose everything else."

"Never let school get in the way of your education."

"Save a horse--ride a cowboy."

"There are three kinds of people in this world: those who can count, and those who can't."

"People ruin relationships by trying to make them last forever."

"There is no beauty without strangeness."

"Love is blind. Marriage is the eye-opener."

"The best things in life aren't things."

"Love your enemies. It pisses them off."

"When everything's coming your way, you're on the wrong lane."

" When you're right, no one remembers. When you're wrong, no one forgets."

"There are very few personal problems that cannot be solved by a suitable application of high explosives."

"Flying is simple. You just throw yourself at the ground and miss."

"Avoid hangovers: stay drunk."

"As long as there are tests, there will be prayer in schools."

"Most people are only alive because it is illegal to shoot them."

poeticallystupid.

u r a filipino when..

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1. You point with your lips

2. You nod upwards to greet someone.

3. You collect items from hotels or restaurants "for souvenir".

4. You smile for no reason.

5. You flirt by having a foolish grin in your face while raising your eyebrows repeatedly.

6. You go to a department store and try to bargain the prices.

7. You add an unwarranted "H" to your name, i.e. "Jhun," "Bhoy," "Rhon."

8. You put your hands together in front of you as if to make a path and say "excuse, excuse" when you pass in between people or in front of the TV

9. You like everything imported or "state-side."

10. You Check the labels on clothes to see where it was made before buying.

11. You always offer food to all your visitors.

12. You say "comfort room" instead of "bathroom."

13. You say "for take out" instead of "to go."

14. You asked for "Colgate" instead of "toothpaste."

15. You asked for a "pentel-pen" or a "ball-pen" instead of just "pen."

16. You order a McDonald's instead of "hamburger"(pronounced ham-boor-jer)

17. You say "Ha?" instead of "What."

18. You say "Hoy" to get someone's attention.

19. You answer when someone yells "Hoy."

20. You turn around when someone says "Psst!"

21. Your sneeze sounds like "ahh-ching" instead of "ahh-choo."

22. You prefer to make acronyms for phrases such as "OA" for over acting, or "TNT" for, well, you know.

23. You say "air con" instead of "a/c" or air conditioner.

24. You say "brown-out" instead of "black-out."

25. You have a portrait of "The Last Supper" hanging in your dining room.

26. You own a Karaoke System.

27. You own a piano that no one ever plays.

28. You own a "barrel man" (you pull up the barrel and you see something that looks familiar. schwing...)

29. You refer to your VCR as a "beytamax

30. You have a giant wooden fork and spoon hanging somewhere in the dining room

31. Your car has too many "burloloys" like a Jipneys back in P.I.

32. You hang a Rosary on your car's rear view mirror.

33. You order a "soft drink" instead of a "soda."

34. You refer to seasonings and all other forms of monosodium glutimate as "Ajinomoto"

35. This you 'll agree 100% ... Goldilocks" means more to you than just a character in a fairytale.

why go to church?

A Church goer wrote a letter to the editor of a newspaper and complained that it made no sense to go to church every Sunday (or Saturday).

"I've gone to Church for 30 years now.." he wrote, "And in that time, I have heard something like 3,000 sermons? But for the life of me, I can't remember a single one of them! So, I think I'm wasting my time and the pastors are wasting theirs by giving sermons at all.."

This started a real controversy in the 'Letters to the Editor' column, much to the delight of the editor. It went on for weeks until someone wrote this clincher.

"I've been married for 30 years now.. In that time my wife has cooked some 32,000 meals.. But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu for a single one of those meals.. But I do know this, they all nourished me and gave me the strength I needed to do my work.. If my wife had not given me these meals, I would be physically dead today. Likewise, if I had not gone to Church for nourishment, I would be spiritually dead today!"

When you are DOWN to nothing.. God is UP to something!

For our physical life we do things we don't always enjoy doing like washing clothes, doing the dishes, taking out the garbage, changing baby's diapers.. but even if we don't enjoy theses things.. we have to do it to keep us clean, healthy and eventually keep us from greater problems..

Honestly, we may not always enjoy going to Church but we need to do it to keep our spirits strong and healthy.

If you want to stay buff, fit and sexy you have to regularly go the the exercise room. To get and maintain the body you want you have to stick to your routine even when you don't feel like it... The same applies to our spirit... we need to keep it fit and healthy... so we need to nourish it by praying and going to Church... even if at times we feel lazy to go.

Poor kid if you don't change its diapers, but diaper changing is never fun. Poor soul if you don't nourish it by going to church at times can seem discard-able.

Faith sees the invisible, believes the incredible and receives the impossible!

Thank God for our physical AND our spiritual nourishment!

* * *

taken from the bulletin message of Assistant Principal for Pastoral Affairs (APPA), Fr. Sylvester Casaclang, SDB

country Acronyms

They got bored and decided to pretend COUNTRIES were acronyms for something else!

ENGLAND- everyone needs good lovers and naked dancers

SPAIN- Sorry Po ayoko ikaw na

SINGAPORE- sorry im not going around parading our relationship events

FRANCE- Freak! Run and never Come egen (cara) [egen as again]

PALAU- puta ayaw lumayo ang u (Maxine)

BRITAIN- Be Really InTo Amazing Intoxicating Necking (cara)

KOREA- keep on removing everyone's acne (cara)

CZECHOSLOVAKIA- c zerg, everyday chops hot okra so lalaki overnight very awesome intense abs (Maxine)

GERMANY- God, eliminate rich men and naughty yayas (cara)

IRAQ- I Really Admire Qts (cara) [Qts =Cuties]

ALASKA- a love abandoned stays kept always (Maxine)

KAZAKHSTAN- Keep Away Zerg! Akala Ko Hot Siya! Tangina Ang Nigger (cara)

VIETNAM- Very Important Emo Time Na! Amputa Mo! (cara)

ARABIA- Always react about bitches inside assumption (Cara)

BRAZIL- Because Real Admiration zamtimes is Love (cara)

CHILE- crap! hottie in left escalator (Maxine)

CUBA- Cute U But ayoko (Maxine)

FIJI- Fuck! Indians Just Intered! (cara)

-fuck it! just ignore (Maxine)

FINLAND- Fine! I Neeed Love And Nudity, Dear! (carA)

ARGENTINA- A Real Gentleman Enjoys Nothing Too Intimate Nothing Admissible. (cara)

TUVALU- Tangina U value another lover uck! (cara)

LAOS- La Ako Oras Sayo! (cara)

UGANDA- u go and never dare arrive (patv)

NORWAY- No Other Reason Why Am Yours (Cara)

THAILAND- these hands are imperfect... love and nurture dem!! (cara)

- that hottie’s always is lame and not down (Maxine)

WALES- Wala ako Love... Ets Sakit (cara)

ICELAND- i cant even lie! ang nose dumudugo! (Maxine)

SWITZERLAND- some waiters i think zpeak english rokba like a nigger does . [rokba= barok]

SRI LANKA- so really, i love admiring naked kinky animals (cara)

SOLOMON ISLANDS- Sometimes ol love overcomes many obstacles... never insist sex.... love a native... dude shit. (cara)

- so order lots of men. one nigger is so lasing, another nigger did something (patv)

SIERRA LEONE - sleep! its evening! relax! rest! a long evening overnight needs extension (Maxine)

SYRIA- say you remembered illegal activities (Maxine)

TRINIDAD- top rope is not in! danger and disaster! (Maxine)

URUGUAY- uy! rest u. goodnight. u antok? yikes! (patv)

QATAR- Quiet Ah! Take a relaxant! (cara)

SURINAME- Suri, U R In Need! Ang Malas Eh! (cara)

GUATEMALA- gosh. u arte to everything. me, am less arte (patv)

IRELAND- i really enjoy long and nice dinners (Maxine)

PARAGUAY- Puta! Anak! Read Aloud! Genius U ah! YEy! (cara)

- please ah! really annoying! gosh. you alis? yay! (Maxine)

hahahhahhahahhaha XD

Nine words women use

1. Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2. Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the football before helping around the house.

3. Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

4. A Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer quickly to No 9 for the meaning of nothing.)

5. That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

6. Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot', which is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' - that will bring on No. 7).

7. Whatever: Is a woman's way of saying, "F-- YOU!"

8. Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to No. 4.

9. Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in "Fine".

Set the world on fire lyrics

LOVE THE LYRICS AND THE MELODY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SET THE WORLD ON FIRE BY BRITT NICOLE

I wanna set the world on fire
Until it`s burning bright for You
It`s everything that I desire
Can I be the one You use?

I, I am small but
You, You are big enough
I, I am weak but
You, You are strong enough to
Take my dreams
Come and give them wings
Lord with You
There`s nothing I can not do
Nothing I cannot do

I wanna feed the hungry children
And reach across the farthest land
And tell the broken there is healing
And mercy in the Father`s hands

My hands my feet
My everything
My life, my love
Lord, use me

I wanna set the world on fire
I wanna set the world on fire, yeah

I`m gonna set the world on fire
Set the world on fire

kindness

Rules for kindness

1. Give something away. (no strings attached).

2. Do a kindness. (and forget it).

3. Spend a few minutes with the old. (their experience is a priceless guidance).

4. Look intently into the face of a baby. (and marvel how good GOD is).

5. Laugh often and smile. (it's a lubricant).

6. Give thanks always. (a thousand times is not even enough).

7. Pray. (or you will lose the way).

8. Work. (with vim and vigor).

9. Plan as though you'll live forever. (because you will).

10. Live as though you'll die tomorrow. (surely you will, some tomorrow).

Let us BE HAPPY and BE WISE!

Our problem is we don't do it.

BE FIRM.

Begin today.

DO IT.

and BE CONSISTENT.

sexual fetishes

List of Paraphilias or Sexual Fetishes

• Abasiophilia: love of (or sexual attraction to) people who are lame or crippled and/or who use leg braces or other orthopaedic appliances
• Ablutophilia: sexual attraction to bathing, showers or other methods of washing oneself
• Agalmatophilia: sexual attraction to statues or mannequins or immobility
• Algolagnia: sexual pleasure from pain
• Acrotomophilia: sexual attraction to amputees
• Andromimetophilia: sexual attraction towards female-to-male transsexuals
• Apotemnophilia: sex arousal associated with being, becoming, or being perceived as an amputee
• Aquaphilia: arousal from water and/or in watery environments, including bathtubs and swimming pools
• Aretifism: sexual attraction to people who are without footwear, in contrast to retifism
• Asphyxiophilia: sexual arousal from self-strangulation
• Autogynephilia: a male's sexual arousal in response to the image of himself as female
• Belonephilia: sexual arousal from using pins, needles or similar sharp objects. Should not be confused with belonephobia, the fear of such objects
• Biastophilia: sexual arousal from assault and rape
• Capnolagnia: sexual arousal from watching other people smoke
• Catagelophilia: sexual arousal from being ridiculed at
• Chremastistophilia: sexual arousal from being robbed or being held
• Chronophilia: sexual attraction to a partner of a widely differing chronological age
• Chrysophilia: sexual arousal from gold or objects colored to gold
• Claustrophilia: sexual arousal from being confined in a small space (compare with claustrophobia)
• Clinophilia: sometimes characterised as a love of beds
• Coprophilia: sexual attraction to (or pleasure from) feces. It's strictly related to Fecophilia, sexual arousal from defecation or watching a partner defecate, particularly on oneself
• Crurophilia: sexual arousal from legs
• Dacryphilia: sexual pleasure in eliciting tears from others or oneself
• Dystychiphilia: sexual arousal from accidents
• Electrocutophilia: sexual arousal from stimulation of nipples or genitals with electricity
• Emetophilia (also vomerophilia): sexual attraction to vomiting
• Erotic asphyxia: sexual attraction from asphyxia (also called "breath control play" or "strangulation"), including autoerotic asphyxiation
• Erotic lactation (also galactophilia or lactophilia): sexual attraction to human milk or lactating women
• Exhibitionism (also autagonistophilia or peodeiktophilia): the recurrent urge to or enacting of exposing one's genitals to unsuspecting persons; also, sexual arousal by engaging in sexual behavior in view of third parties
• Food play: sexual arousal from food, also termed sitophilia
• Formicophilia: sexual attraction to smaller animals, insects, etc. crawling on parts of the body
• Forniphilia: sexual objectification in which a person's body is incorporated into a piece of furniture
• Frotteurism: sexual arousal from the recurrent urge or behavior of touching or rubbing against a non-consenting person
• Gerontophilia: sexual arousal from significantly older partners
• Gynemimetophilia sexual attraction towards male-to-female transsexuals
• Gynotikolobomassophilia: sexual arousal from a woman's earlobe
• Hamartophilia: sexual arousal from committing or thinking about acts that are considered to be sins, or viewing or thinking about other people performing such acts
• Haptephilia: sexual arousal from being touched by someone else
• Hebephilia: sexual attraction to pubescent children
• Homeovestism: sexual arousal by wearing the clothing of one's own gender
• Human animal roleplay: sexual arousal by having oneself or a partner taking on the role of real or imaginary animal
• Hybristophilia: sexual arousal to people who have committed crimes, in particular cruel or outrageous crimes
• Infantophilia: sexual attraction to children three years old or younger
• Kainotophilia: sexual arousal from change
• Kakorrhaphiphilia: sexual arousal from failure
• Katoptronophilia: sexual arousal from having sex in front of mirrors
• Keraunophilia: sexual arousal from thunder and/or lightning
• Kinesophilia: sexual arousal from physical exercise
• Kleptophilia: sexual arousal from stealing things
• Klismaphilia: sexual pleasure from enemas
• Knismolagnia: sexual arousal from being tickled
• Knissophilia: sexual arousal from incense
• Kopophilia: sexual arousal from exhaustion
• Lust murder (also homicidophilia or erotophonophilia): sexual arousal from committing (or trying to commit) murder
• Macrophilia: sexual attraction to giants, giantessess or giant body parts (such as breasts and genitalia)—the opposite of microphilia
• Masochism: the recurrent urge or behavior of wanting to be humiliated, beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suffer
• Mastigophilia: sexual arousal from punishment
• Mazophilia: sexual arousal from the breasts of a woman
• Megalophilia: sexual arousal from large objects
• Metophilia: sexual arousal from another person's face
• Metrophilia: sexual arousal from poetry
• Microphilia: sexual attraction to miniature people or miniature body parts—the opposite of macrophilia
• Mysophilia: sexual attraction to soiled, dirty, foul or decaying materials
• Narratophilia: sexual arousal in the use of dirty or obscene words to a partner
• Nasophilia: sexual arousal from touching the nose of a person
• Necrophilia: sexual attraction to corpses
• Neophilia: sexual arousal from what is new
• Nepiophilia: sexual attraction to children three years old or younger
• Nyctophilia: sexual arousal from darkness or night
• Odaxelagnia: sexual arousal associated with biting or being bitten
• Olfactophilia: sexual stimulus with smells or odors. (see also Jock sniffing)
• Paraphilic infantilism: sexual pleasure from dressing, acting, or being treated as a baby
• Parthenophilia: sexual attraction to virgins
• Partialism: exaggerated sexual interest in a non-genital very specific body part
• Paedophilia: sexual attraction to prepubescent children (American spelling: pedophilia)
• Pictophilia: sexual attraction to pictorial pornography or erotic art
• Plushophilia: sexual attraction to stuffed animals and/or people dressed in animal costumes
• Podophilia: sexual attraction to human feet
• Pup-play: human animal roleplay utilizing canine characteristics or identities
• Pyrophilia: sexual arousal through watching, setting, hearing, talking or fantasizing about fire
• Sadism: deriving pleasure, or in some cases sexual arousal from giving pain
• Scatophilia: synonym for coprophilia: paraphilia associated with feces
• Salirophila: sexual arousal by soiling (only the appearance of) the object of one's desired partner
• Sitophilia: sexual arousal by involving food in sex, also termed food play
• Somnophilia: sexual arousal from sleeping or unconscious people. It appears to be related to necrophilia.
• Sthenolagnia: sexual arousal from the demonstration of strength or muscles
• Telephone scatologia: being sexually aroused by making obscene phone calls to strangers
• Teratophilia: sexual attraction to deformed or monstrous people
• Transvestism: a male's sexual arousal from wearing female clothes; also called transvestic autogynephilia
• Trichophilia: sexual arousal from hair
• Troilism (also spelled triolism): Sexual interest in watching one's regular sexual partner having sex with a third party, usually unbeknownst to the third party.
• Urolagnia: sexual attraction to urine, including urinating in public, urinating on others, and being urinated on by others; it includes Urophagia: sexual attraction to drinking urine or watching others drink urine.
• Vaccinophilia: sexual arousal from being vaccinated
• Vicarphilia: sexual arousal through hearing stories about other people's lives
• Vincilagnia : sexual arousal from being tied up
• Vorarephilia: sexual attraction at the thought of being eaten by or eating another person or creature.
• Voyeurism: (also scoptophilia) sexual arousal through secretly watching others in intimate situations, such as disrobing, being naked, or having sex
• Xenophily: sexual attraction to foreigners (in science fiction, it can also mean sexual attraction to aliens)
• Zelophilia: sexual arousal from jealousy of one's own of his/her partner
• Zoophilia: sexual attraction to animals
• Zoosadism: sexual gratification derived from causing pain and suffering to animals; necrozoophilia (also necrobestiality) strictly applies to killing animals